How to Choose Cremation Urns

While it is hard to contemplate the death of a loved one, advance planning makes this difficult time easier for everyone. Learning how to choose cremation urns alleviates some of the pressure from a grieving family.

1. First: Take time if needed

   Some people think you must select an urn as soon as your loved one dies; this is not true. Most funeral homes provide ashes in a container that can store for some time. Do not feel rushed into making your decision.

2. Second: Consider pre-purchase

   These days, many people choose their own urns in advance. By looking at all the options, it is possible to choose a memorial urn that expresses who you are. When this urn is displayed at a funeral, everyone can realize the thought and care put into the selection.

3. Third: Consult with others

   If a pre-purchase is not made, make sure everyone in the family has a chance to offer input on the urn selection. With email and video chat available now, getting opinions is easier. Someone in the family may have a special insight into a material or design that the loved one would have preferred; do not let this go to waste.

4. Fourth: Set a budget

   The prices of today's urns vary - ranging as low as $100 all the way up to $2000 or more depending on material and style selection. Also, a vault for the urn comes at additional cost if one is needed. Setting a price range in advance saves time and reduces tension among family members. Consult your funeral director for advice on materials that are best for either burying or displaying the urn.